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2024-12-25

A prayer

Oh Divine Mother of mine! As I sit in my meditation room, I have just finished praying for guidance—for our family and for each of us to find the way back to the source. Help us learn t…

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2024-12-20

Breaking Free from Negative Relationship Cycles

Relationships are often our greatest sources of joy—but when we feel disconnected, they can also bring pain and frustration. Over my years as a therapist, I’ve witnessed the profound tr…

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2024-12-08

a snowy day in the heart

today is a white heavy snow day, and it’s absolutely beautiful to just sit at home. the quiet wraps around me like a soft blanket, and the music plays gently in the background. I’m not …

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2024-11-26

The Hardest Therapy I’ve Ever Done

When I first began my journey as a therapist, I thought I knew what the hardest cases would be. I imagined working with individuals who had committed crimes, those battling psychosis, h…

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2024-11-05

The Journey of Psychedelic Integration

The therapeutic potential of psychedelics has sparked a new wave of interest in mental health and personal growth. Psychedelic experiences often expand our consciousness, allowing us to…

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2024-11-02

The pain of Motherhood

This morning, as I sat waiting for my daughter, a quiet ache settled in—a familiar one that seems to live in the heart of every mother. Motherhood is filled with joy, but there’s a hidd…

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2024-10-23

Spiritual Bypass – A Barrier to Authentic Healing

Spiritual bypass refers to the tendency to use spiritual practices or beliefs as a way to avoid facing unresolved emotional or psychological issues. It’s a form of defense mechanism whe…

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2024-10-19

Women – Creation, Love, and the Divine

As I’ve sat with my clients and listened to their stories, I’ve found myself reflecting deeply on the role of women in life. Time and again, I see that women hold a unique and sacred pl…

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2024-10-14

Erik Erikson’s Psychosocial Theory of Development

Erik Erikson’s Psychosocial Theory of Development is one of the most well-known and influential models in psychology. It outlines eight stages of development that individuals go through…

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2024-10-12

Behavior training – Does it work?

Behavioral therapy, especially as pioneered by B.F. Skinner, emphasizes the idea that behaviors can be shaped and conditioned through reinforcement, much like training animals such as d…

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2024-09-14

THE BEAUTY OF DEPENDENCE

In today’s fast-paced world, we often take pride in our independence. We like to think of ourselves as self-sufficient beings, capable of navigating life on our own. But nature, with it…

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2024-08-01

Internal Family Systems Therapy: A Path to Healing and Self-Discovery

Internal Family Systems (IFS) Therapy offers a unique and compassionate approach to psychotherapy that empowers individuals to heal themselves from within. By recognizing the complexity…

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2024-07-24

Exploring the Healing Journey Through EMDR Therapy

Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing (EMDR) therapy represents a shift in psychotherapeutic treatments that effectively alleviates the distress associated with traumatic memori…

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2024-07-15

Emotions – Sensors of the Heart.

Emotions guide us much like the senses guide our interactions with the physical world. They are the sensors of our heart, intricately designed to protect and nurture our inner selves. E…

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2024-04-06

The Importance of Nurturing Children’s Hearts

In the realm of child development, the emphasis often leans heavily towards intellectual growth and physical health. However, according to Rudolf Steiner, true education encompasses far…

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2024-03-06

Love’s Resilience

This morning, as the sun streamed through the windows of my office, casting a gentle glow on the faces before me, I was reminded once again why couple counseling holds such a special pl…

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2024-02-14

A reflection on healing and recovery

This morning, as I bid farewell to a client, my heart felt unusually heavy. The progress we seemed to be making suddenly felt overshadowed by a single moment that reminded me of the com…

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2024-02-11

The Art of Nourishing Your Inner World

Imagine for a moment that your mind is a garden. The thoughts you plant, the attention you water them with, and the information you feed them, all contribute to the landscape of this in…

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2024-02-01

Embracing Life’s Cycle: Lessons from Nature on Harmony and Coexistence

Reflecting on my client’s observation this morning about two trees – one flourishing and the other withering – sharing the same soil, a profound metaphor for life’s intricate interconne…

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2024-01-18

The Melting Point of Heaven and Earth: A Drive by Lake Superior

This morning, as I drove towards work, I witnessed a spectacle that beautifully encapsulated the balance of life, a scene where heaven and earth seemed to merge into one. Lake Superior,…

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2024-01-16

Navigating the Seas of Anxiety: A Journey Through New Beginnings

Anxiety is like a dance between our thoughts and emotions, often reaching its crescendo when we stand on the brink of new experiences, such as embarking on a new job. It’s a dance that …

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2024-01-15

Understanding and Upholding Client Rights in Mental Health Care

In our continuous effort to provide exceptional mental health care, it’s crucial to understand and respect the rights of our clients. This post delves into the 2023 Minnesota Statutes, …

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2024-01-15

Navigating HIPAA: Best Practices and Understanding Breaches

In the ever-evolving landscape of healthcare, the Health Insurance Portability and Accountability Act (HIPAA) stands as a crucial cornerstone, ensuring the protection and confidentialit…

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2024-01-04

The Power of Attachment Theory and Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT)

The quest for understanding and enhancing human relationships has long been a topic of interest in psychology. Attachment theory, developed by John Bowlby (1969/1982, 1988), and Emotion…

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2024-01-03

Rediscovering the Magic in Creation

In the hustle of our daily lives, we often overlook the profound mysteries that envelop us. The natural world, with its intricate designs and complex processes, operates in a symphony o…

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2024-01-02

The Myth of Normal Parenting

In a world where ‘normal’ often dictates our actions and beliefs, it’s crucial to question the norms that shape our parenting styles. Dr. Gabor Maté, a renowned physician and author, in…

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2024-01-01

Meditation Needs Energy

In my counseling sessions, I’ve observed a curious phenomenon: sometimes clients fall asleep during guided meditation. While this might seem surprising, it’s actually a telling sign. It…

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