Category: Couple

  • Breaking Free from Negative Relationship Cycles

    Breaking Free from Negative Relationship Cycles

    Relationships are often our greatest sources of joy—but when we feel disconnected, they can also bring pain and frustration. Over my years as a therapist, I’ve witnessed the profound transformation that can occur when couples recognize and break free from the negative cycles that keep them stuck. Inspired by the…

  • The Hardest Therapy I’ve Ever Done

    The Hardest Therapy I’ve Ever Done

    When I first began my journey as a therapist, I thought I knew what the hardest cases would be. I imagined working with individuals who had committed crimes, those battling psychosis, homelessness, or histories of sexual violence would challenge me the most. And while these cases are undeniably complex and…

  • Love’s Resilience

    Love’s Resilience

    This morning, as the sun streamed through the windows of my office, casting a gentle glow on the faces before me, I was reminded once again why couple counseling holds such a special place in my heart. I had the privilege of meeting with a couple, each on their own…

  • The Power of Attachment Theory and Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT)

    The Power of Attachment Theory and Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT)

    The quest for understanding and enhancing human relationships has long been a topic of interest in psychology. Attachment theory, developed by John Bowlby (1969/1982, 1988), and Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT) pioneered by Susan M. Johnson (2004), provide profound insights into this area. Both attachment theory and EFT emphasize the significance…